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Dave,
you are the GOD of dating! Seriosly, everything i read from you is just pure nectar for my
"was-wussy-but-getting-more-manly" soul! I'm more nervous writing this email to you than
talking to girls! But i need some advice about a this girl (duh!).
Now, first some about me: From Norway, but half Bolivian, 16 years old, quite tall and
somewhat chubby. I play abit to much computer and spend alot of time on internet, so you
will have to excuse the need for usage of "lol" and "^^". Oh, and i listen to alot of
metal music ^^
Anyways, I've never had a girlfriend before, but have had some kisses and some "flings",
so to speak. They all ended quite bad though. This combined with me starting to listen to
metal about one and a half year ago, i was on the edge to developing into an "emo" (
abbreviation for emotionall), which is really a place you dont wanna be. Luckily,
searching different forums for dating help, i stumble unto your material.
Speeding things up, nowadays i finaly got your book and have read it at least 12 times ^^.
No girlfriends yet, but definetaly noticing different reactions from the girls. Now, to my
"problem"
About half a year ago i visited another town where a friend of my lived to, well, get
drunk ^^
Anyways, i started talking to this girl, and just because i was never gonna see her again
(at least so i thought), i started saying things like "Hey baby, met me at the gas station
in 1 hour. Hope you enjoy anal sex and bring the lube, kk cya"
Yes, i know, very immature. But i had NOT read about you at that point, and it actually
made her play the game with me. I get her email and we talk on MSN alot, then i get wussy,
start sending text messages and screws everything up. She stops talking to me after a
while, gets a girlfriend, and i just sit and can not do anything about it.
Then, after reading your stuff, i talk to her again about a half year ago. I make some CF
comments, so we develop into "buddies". I get your book, and starts to but more and more
pressure on. But, she has a boyfriend. So i just stop talking to her except when she
starts the conversation, and it works kinda good (she doesnt ignore me at least).
So, 3 days ago, i just say to myself "what the heck" and start doing the whole "you know
you love me, why are you flirting with me when you have a boyfriend?" etc. I give you one
example of our conversation:
Me: You are trying to deny that you love me, yet like all the others you only manage to
say "no, you love me"
Her: :P
Me: And like the others, you too can't say a thing to deny it.
Her: Fine, "busted" *insert blushing smiley*
Me: Wow dude, i dont think this relationship is gonna work.
Her: So now i'm a man?
Me: Always have been and is a man, thank you very much. And btw, if you didn't get it,
your dumped!
Her: :(
Me: But i guess your boyfriend still wants you.
Her: Oh, i forgot all about him ^^
In my opinion, it's quite good response.
Then, today, a disturbing thing happens:
I notice she has removed "Love you *boyfriend*" from her MSN. So i ask her, where did he
go? She answers: "Why do you care? It seems i love you to much, yet you dont care".
Now, NEVER has any girl said she loves me without me being a wuss (which results in her
ignoring me after a short while), so i'm kinda caught off guard. Yet, i reply: "You have
never directly told me you love me, and every time i said you did you just denied it"
and finished off with a slightly smiling slightly laughing smiley.
Then she says it doesnt matter because i used all of my chances, then i say "Chances?
Girl, you got it wrong. YOU need to try harder to get with ME. Im not even trying to get
you to love me, it's just in your nature to do so. I just like playing with you, because
you get so confused ^^"
Notice the bald script. I later realised, this is probably were i screwed up. Saying that
she loves me in a funny way is cool, saying i play with her is not that cool (i think).
Now, i KNOW i shouldn't care, and just move on. But this thing gave me a real bad feeling
in the stomach, which i hate. For the first time in months, im nervous about a girl. Now,
what should i say, or should i perhaps not say anything, to make her not mad? Because she
clearly is mad now.
Anyways, i hope you answer my mail, which i just finished at 5 o'clock at night. I KNOW i
shouldnt fret about her, but it has already happened so i just need some soothing advice
from the guru to calm me down ^^
Greetings from Norway!
D.R.S.A
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